Different people have different story, different responsible.. don't judge people, judge our self first.

Assalamualaikum & Hello.

Today I just want to share a story I've heard from the radio. It's a true story.

One day a friend is riding a train going to somewhere. The environment in the train was peaceful and clam. Some people are reading a book, some people are sleeping, some people are chatting with a low voice respecting others who are reading. The feeling was nice in there and that friend is in there with a nice feeling.

After several stop, a father with his 2 children (3,4 years old) come inside the train. Just after they got into the train, the father directly fall asleep and exclude himself from his children. What happen is then, this 2 children start playing around in the train. The run from one end to another end, climbing the pole and making much noise. Furthermore, when there were running if there is someone reading a newspaper or magazine, the children will hit the book or magazine until it drops from the readers hand.

So the condition inside the train has changed. From a nice and peaceful condition it has changed to a chaotic and noisy environment. After a while, this friend decided to take action and he start by sitting next to the sleeping father. Slowly he woke the father and tell him that your children are making noise in the train. Looking at his children, suddenly there's a tear coming out from his eyes. This friend become shock, and ask if there's anything that he can help.

And the father start talking, several days ago my wife was held in the hospital for a cancer treatment and the children cannot see their mother. For the last few days, the children become depressed, don't want to eat or play. Then I begged to the doctor to let my children see their mother. and today the doctor agrees. But just before we want to go, I received a call from the hospital... "Sir, could you come quickly to the hospital, your wife has past away".

Now, I don't know how to tell this to my children...

Ok, the story stops there. It is a true story and it is a sad story. But what I want to share here is that as mention in my tittle, different people have different story and different responsibilities.. don't judge them, judge our self first. What ever happen around us, it is important that we don't jump to conclusion quickly. We have this bad behavior of judging people without ever thinking about others. This is what the story shows us.

So friend, it's better for us to have a good thought for other people first before we concluded anything. Ok friend, lets try to have a good thought (husnuzan) for each people we meet ok. Sometimes we fail to do so, but at least we try. ^_^

Wallahu'alam. (Allah Know best)